How Old Are You?

“Age is a quality of mind.
If you have left your dreams behind,
If hope is cold,
If you no longer look ahead,
If your ambitions’ fire are dead–
Then you are old
But if from life you take the best,
And if in life you keep the jest,
If love you hold;
No matter how the years go by,
No matter how the birthdays fly–
You are not old.”
H.S. Fritsch

Never Be the Smartest Guy in the Room

Here is a terrific article from a guy named Phil Johnson about surrounding yourself with a team of people smarter than yourself. This is hard for the typical leader to do, but it probably is the biggest factor in taking you beyond where you are.

Here’s one of the things Phil says in the article:

“Look for people who have accomplished a goal, or solved a problem, that you personally aspired to achieve and couldn’t. Make them tell you how they did it. Put your own convictions and beliefs on the table. Ask them to convince you of something new or, better yet, to change your perspective. Find out their sources. What do they read? Who do they admire? Where do they look for inspiration? I like to see people making connections that would never cross my mind.”

Drive pt. 2

Here is a great add on from my post yesterday. It is a video of Daniel Pink explaining the concept of his book in a super creative format. Profound content + creative presentation = potential for change.

Drive

Daniel Pink - DriveI recently finished Daniel Pink’s book called Drive along with a handful of the leadership team at Central. I absolutely loved the counter-intuitive nature of the content and how much it reminded me of a good Malcolm Gladwell book. If you lead anybody, employees or kids or anyone else to who you have influence, this book is a must read. Here are some of the quotes that stood out to me:

“Harlow offered a novel theory–what amounted to a third drive: ‘The performance of the task,’ he said, ‘provided intrinsic reward.'”

“Companies that typically rely on external rewards to manage their employees run some of their most important systems with products created by nonemployees who don’t seem to need such rewards.”

“Partly because work has become more creative and less routine, it has also become more enjoyable. That, too, scrambles Motivation 2.0’s assumptions. This operating system rests on the belief that work is not inherently enjoyable–which is precisely why we must coax people with external rewards and threaten them with outside punishment.”

“Human beings have a innate inner drive to be autonomous, self-determined, and connected to one another. And when that drive is liberated, people achieve more and live richer lives.”

“In a ROWE [Results Only Work Environment] workplace, people don’t have schedules. They show up when they want. They don’t have to be in the office at a certain time–or any time, for that matter. They just have to get their work done. How they do it, when they do it, and where they do it is up to them.”

“We forget sometimes that ‘management’ does not emanate from nature. It’s not like a tree or a river. It’s like a television or a bicycle. It’s something that humans invented.”

“The opposite of autonomy is control. And since they sit at different poles of the behavioral compass, they point us toward different destinations. Control leads to compliance; autonomy leads to engagement.”

Divine Conspiracy – Ch.3

Here are some of my favorite quotes from chapter 3 of Dallas Willard’s Divine Conspiracy:

“Until our thoughts of God have found every visible thing and event glorious with his presence, the word of Jesus has not yet fully seized us.”

“The abundance of his love and generosity is inseparable from his infinite joy. All of the good and beautiful things from which we occasionally drink tiny droplets of soul-exhilarating joy, God continuously experiences in all their breadth and depth and richness.”

“We are enraptured by a well-done movie sequence or by a few bars from an opera or lines from a poem. We treasure our great experiences for a lifetime, and we may have very few of them. But he is simply one great inexhaustible and eternal experience of all that is good and true and beautiful and right.”

“As we increasingly integrate our life into the spiritual world of God, our life increasingly takes on the substance of the eternal.”

What is your tolerance for injustice?

My wife has always been an animal lover. She is sad whenever an animal is hurt, even in a movie where it isn’t actually happening. She’s been an avid devotee of the show Whale Wars and I’ve had such a hard time watching that show. Not because it is hard to see what is happening to the whales, but because of how frustrating it is to watch the team of people trying to help them. It doesn’t seem that they accomplish much, and the show has never stirred me to any great degree.

But last night she watched a 2 hour documentary called “The Cove” where they show how dolphins are slaughtered brutally (and this is where places like SeaWorld get their dolphins from so that they can entertain us). I was hanging some blinds in our living room, but I found myself being sucked into the show. As we watched the heartbreaking footage of dolphins being stabbed repeatedly until the water turns pure red, both Michelle and I were visibly bothered. She began crying and I felt like I needed to throw up. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing and that it was allowed to happen. Let me make this clear, I am not an animal activist by any stretch of the imagination. But as I watched, I realized that it had less to do with dolphins and more to do with injustice.

And that’s when I realized that I don’t have much tolerance for injustice, in a bad way. I want to change the channel and watch something more uplifting. But this is what is happening whether I acknowledge it or not. And this is how God sees the world every day. As Michelle and I debriefed the show afterward, she began to cry even more as she thought about this kind of injustice happening to people, happening to little kids and babies who can’t defend themselves any more than those dolphins can. And I realized that injustice pushes us closer to God, because we have to. We have to feel like someone is able to do something about it, and I know God cares. But we often try to do everything possible to avoid seeing it.

I relate with Habakkuk’s complaint in the Bible:

“How long, O LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, ‘Violence!’ but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds. Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails. The wicked hem in the righteous, so that justice is perverted.” (1:2-4)

I encourage you to take the time to watch the documentary that I saw. Sadly, this is one example of many when it comes to injustice in the world today. Are we willing to look injustice in the face and do something about it? Are we willing to allow ourselves to be heartbroken and to plead with God over it? Or will we turn a blind eye because it is more comfortable?