Introducing Madsen Jeter Jernigan!

I am proud to announce the newest member of the Jernigan family: Madsen Jeter! He was born at 5:27pm on Thursday, May 6th. He weighed in at 7 pounds and 13 ounces (for comparison, Gavin was 9 lbs 8 oz!)

It’s been a bit of a roller coaster experience. We were scheduled to go in at 5am in the morning, then they called us last night and told us that we wouldn’t be in till more like 5pm in the afternoon, then got a phone call just after 7am today telling us they had a room ready. So turns out we were able to get a good night sleep and then head over to the hospital. God took care of us.

Delivery went fantastic and both Mom and Madsen are doing terrific. Thanks for all your prayers!

Here are some pictures of the experience so far (starting with last night with Gavin). Click on any of them to zoom in.

Declining God

[M]y wife Michelle and I had a funny conversation today. Her debit card had been declined a couple of times and she asked me if mine was too. When I told her that mine was working fine I encouraged her to call our bank and find out what was going on. She learned that her card had been flagged because she had tried to make an online purchase…Yankee toddler sheets.

They told her that she normally didn’t use her card online so this looked suspicious and was flagged. Apparently they missed the fact that she used that same card to buy a stroller, which cost much more than the sheets, the day before. After she got off the phone she sat and processed the conversation she’d just had. Then she pointed out to me that I had recently been to Egypt, used my debit card there multiple times, and had no problems myself. Apparently the banks create a reputation for you and then follow it closely.

It strikes me that we do the same with God. Those of us that have had good experiences with God, and consequently have a positive view of Him, tend to experience Him in this light. Those of us that have had bad experiences with God, or more accurately bad experiences with Christians representing God, consequently have a negative view of Him and tend to experience Him in this light.

But here’s the danger: allowing a bad reputation of God to cause you to decline on Him for future possibilities is self-restricting, especially if your expectation of God is wrong. And from my experiences, most people’s negative views on God are based on inaccurate Christians and an inaccurate understanding of the nature of God. So if you are caught in this cycle of responding to God in this way, I invite you to give Him a chance. You might just find that His account is good for it.

TRADY Award – Brett Domino

After a long period without a nomination, it’s time for our 4th ever TRADY Award (Tomorrow’s Reflection Award for Distinguishing Yourself). This time, the honor goes to my man Brett Domino (he deserves the award just for the awesomeness of his name alone). Brett is quite the talented guy, just watch the videos below and see for yourself.

So congratulations Brett and welcome to the TRADY club. You inspire us with your ability to make sweet melodies out of things that most of us wouldn’t spend more than 5 minutes with. Not to mention a fantastic display of dry, English humor.

As usual, if you know of anyone that deserves a TRADY then please email it to me and maybe you’ll see their name next to their own award sometime soon.

Here are the requirements to be considered for this award:

  1. The person must have some unique talent or passion (neigh, obsession) that is different from most people
  2. The person must be someone who is not a “celebrity” and that needs the attention and power that comes from receiving a TRADY
  3. The person must do something that someone else could argue was a complete waist of time

What Does God Want?

This weekend I preached on Ephesians 5:21-33 where Paul addresses husbands and wives. Verse 25 says, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” So, in the context of the Church, we are the bride and Christ is the husband.

Now look at verse 33: “each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” I think this verse shows the two biggest needs that husbands and wives have. Wives need to be loved by their husbands, and husbands need to be respected by their wives. When each receive this from their spouse, you get the “profound mystery” that Paul references.

So if we take these two ideas and combine them together, does that mean that Jesus is looking for respect from us? If we as His Church are His bride, do we need love most? That doesn’t seem to be something we’d argue, but I don’t hear about God desiring respect from us often. We often talk about giving God glory, but I wonder why we don’t talk about giving Him respect.

What do you think? Does God desire respect from us? I don’t think I’ve ever heard a worship song that talked about giving God respect, but maybe they exist.

If Superman Played Baseball

For anyone who remotely enjoys the game of baseball, this video is incredible!

Thanks Landon for sending this to me!

Alice in Wonderland

I realized a few months ago that though I am familiar with a handful of references to Lewis Carroll’s books, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass, I had never actually read the stories myself. And with the new movie out I decided it was time for me to read the originals myself.

I have to admit, I’m a bit confused by them. There must be more there that I’m not seeing because I didn’t exactly love them. I did enjoy the constant play on words in the conversations, but there was no plot to speak of in either story and it seems like Lewis (who’s real name was Charles Lutwidge Dodgson) might have been under the influence of something when he wrote them. There were two quotes in Through the Looking-Glass that I felt summed up the stories. The first is where Alice explains that “It’s exactly like a riddle with no answer!” The second is the poem that ends the book. “In a Wonderland they lie, Dreaming as the days go by, Dreaming as the summer die. Ever drifting down the stream–Lingering in the golden gleam–Life, what is it but a dream?”

Please let me know if there is something I’m missing here as obviously this story has become a staple in culture. Part of the explanation might be that the official genre for the story is called “literary nonsense.” Nonetheless, here are a few lines that I enjoyed:

“For you see, so many out-of-the-way things had happened lately, that Alice had begun to think that very few things indeed were really impossible.”

“She generally gave herself very good advice (though she very seldom followed it).”

“‘Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?’ ‘That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,’ said the Cat. ‘I don’t much care where–‘ said Alice. ‘Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,’ said the Cat. ‘–so long as I get somewhere,’ Alice added as an explanation. ‘Oh, you’re sure to do that,’ said the Cat, ‘if you only walk long enough.'”

“”Take some more tea,’ the March Hare said to Alice, very earnestly. ‘I’ve had nothing yet,’ Alice replied in an offended tone: ‘so I ca’n’ take more.’ ‘You mean you ca’n’t take less,’ said the Hatter: ‘it’s very easy to take more than nothing.'”

“Why sometimes I’ve believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.”