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The Cure for Lifeless Christianity

The Cure for Lifeless Christianity

Last Sunday they printed my second article for the East Valley Tribune. I wrote about how we often think of our faith as passive despite the fact that the Bible uses very experiential language. It’s called “The Cure for Lifeless Christianity.”

Click here to read the article.

Digital Courage (Remixed)

In our world of computers and online conversations it is easy to say what you want with little regard to how it affects others. This is often referred to as “digital courage.” Many people say things behind a keyboard which they’d never dream of saying to someone’s face.

As a person who speaks on stage in front of people I’m often on the receiving end of someone’s digital courage. It can quickly be discouraging and less than objective to whatever it was which was actually said. While those are the examples that usually stand out to me personally, I’m also acutely aware how single-minded I can become when I’m writing about opinions of my own. The challenge before us all (and the continuous reminder) is to be the same person behind a keyboard that we are in person. For that matter, to be the same person regardless of the setting or situation.

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Little Things Matter

Little Things Matter

In a world of choices, the little things matter. It used to be that someone may not know the difference of the little things from one place to another. In our social media world everything is out in the open.

I’m not sure why my fast food experiences spur on so many blog ideas for me, but since I’ve already written about McDonald’s and Burger King, here’s a post about two more.

I don’t often eat at Whataburger, but my last experience stood out to me. My normal drive through routine is to ask for a packet of barbecue and ranch. Normally they silently grab a few and toss them in my bag. If you’re a regular at Whataburger, you know that’s not the case. I was told that I’d have to pay extra for each condiment I wanted.

Seriously?

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Embrace the End to Get the New

Embrace the End to Get the New

This weekend we had seventeen incredible Easter services at Central. It was extra special for our church since we were finishing a two and a half year series through the Gospel of Luke. Our creative element played with a stamp that said either “end,” or “new,” depending on which way you turned it. The point was that the end of the life of Christ offers us a new life in response.

I’ve continued to think about this idea. The hard reality is that we seldom like endings. They are painful and usually involve us admitting defeat or some sort of failure. For anyone trying to create something new or take a risk, endings are a part of the process. As Seth Godin says,

“If failure is not an option than neither is success.”

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The Allure of the Easy Win

The Allure of the Easy Win

The tension between career and family burdens anyone who has them both. How do you know how many hours and effort to give to each one? Should they get equal time and attention or is there some other magic formula?┬áIn my own life and in mentoring other guys, I’ve learned a scary but important lesson: it’s far easier to succeed at work than it is to succeed at home. In fact, this is true for most people who go to “work” somewhere each day.

That’s because my job has clearly measurable outcomes. The decisions I make either result in success or something less than. I get performance reviews and have the potential to get a raise at the end of a good year. I’m constantly receiving feedback and adjusting accordingly. More than anything, I’ve figured out how to make it work. That doesn’t mean it always works as I’d like, but I’m pretty clear on what it would take if I’m willing and able to do it. This is an easy win.

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The Conundrum of the Cookie

The Conundrum of the Cookie

Life is full of uncertainty.

As a case in point, my wife and I recently had a handful of discussions that belong on an episode of Seinfeld. With the addition of our fourth child we realized that some of our household tasks were getting more difficult to keep up with. As a result, we asked for some recommendations of cleaning companies that could come a couple times a month. We received a handful and finally decided to try out one of the top options. We were both a bit uncertain about how the whole process works as we’ve never used a company like this before.

For our first appointment, my wife took the kids out of the house so that some cleaning could actually take place. When she returned a few hours later, she noticed that the house looked great and had a clean smell to it (maybe that was just mental, but I swear there is a “clean” smell). But one thing in particular caught Michelle’s eye.

There was a half eaten cookie in the living room.

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